The Unwritten Rules of Sourcing & Negotiating $3M+ Homes

What experienced buyers understand about auctions, private sales, and off-market deals before committing millions.

Most buyers at the $3M+ level are intelligent, experienced professionals. But they're competing against agents who do this every day. This guide levels the field — with 30 years of inner-east deal experience distilled into practical, honest advice.

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Victorian Vendor Advocate of the Year 2024
Established 2003
Victorian Buyers Agent of the Year 2024 & 2025
Victorian Vendor Advocate of the Year 2024
Established 2003
Victorian Buyers Agent of the Year 2024 & 2025
Victorian Vendor Advocate of the Year 2024
Established 2003
Victorian Buyers Agent of the Year 2024 & 2025
Victorian Vendor Advocate of the Year 2024
Established 2003
Victorian Buyers Agent of the Year 2024 & 2025
Victorian Vendor Advocate of the Year 2024
Established 2003
Victorian Buyers Agent of the Year 2024 & 2025
Victorian Vendor Advocate of the Year 2024
Established 2003
Victorian Buyers Agent of the Year 2024 & 2025

What you'll learn from this guide

Why most $3M+ properties are never listed publicly

And how to position yourself to access them before your competition does.

How to read vendor motivation

The signals that tell you when a vendor is flexible on price — and when they're not. What experienced advocates look for before making an offer.

Auction strategy for premium properties

Most buyers go to auction emotionally. Here's how to approach it analytically — with a clear ceiling, a clear plan, and the discipline to walk away when the numbers don't work.

How to appraise a property before the agent tells you what to think

The comparable sales approach that professional advocates use to assess true market value — before the agent's "price guide" influences your judgement.

Common negotiation mistakes that cost buyers six figures

The errors most buyers make in a private sale — and how to avoid them.

The questions you should be asking your agent (and theirs)

What the other side's agent is not volunteering, and how to extract the information that gives you leverage.

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Who wrote this

Written by Toby Primrose — buyers advocate, Malvern-based, 30 years in Melbourne's real estate industry.

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